While spousal benefits help a couple during their joint lifetime, survivor benefits are designed to prevent a sharp drop in standard of living after one partner passes away. This is perhaps the most critical "insurance" component of Social Security, as it ensures the surviving spouse continues to receive the higher of the two checks the couple was receiving .

The "Higher of Two" Rule

The most important concept in survivor planning is that when one spouse dies, the smaller of the two Social Security checks disappears, and the survivor keeps the larger one .

Example:

John receives $2,500/month.
Jane receives $1,500/month.
Total household income: $4,000/month.
If John passes away, Jane stops receiving her $1,500 and starts receiving John’s $2,500 as a survivor benefit .
New household income: $2,500/month.

This represents a $1,500 (37.5%) drop in household income. This is why it is so vital for the higher earner to delay claiming until age 70—it makes that "survivor floor" as high as possible for the remaining partner .

Eligibility and Timing for Survivors

Survivor benefits have different age rules than retirement or spousal benefits. A widow or widower can begin receiving survivor benefits as early as age 60 (or age 50 if they are disabled) .

However, claiming early comes with a permanent reduction:

Claiming at Age 60: The survivor receives about 71.5% of the deceased's benefit .
Claiming at FRA: The survivor receives 100% of the deceased's benefit .

Note on Caregiving: If a surviving spouse is caring for the deceased's child who is under age 16 or disabled, they can receive "child-in-care" survivor benefits at any age . These benefits typically stop once the child turns 16, creating what is known as the "widow's blackout period" until the survivor reaches age 60 .

Sequencing: The Survivor's Strategic Advantage

Unlike regular retirement benefits, survivor benefits and personal retirement benefits are treated as two separate "buckets." This allows for a unique strategy called sequencing, which is not available to standard retirees due to the "deemed filing" rules .

Strategy A: Survivor First, Personal Later

If your own retirement benefit (at age 70) will be higher than your survivor benefit, you can:

Claim the survivor benefit at age 60 (even though it's reduced) .
Let your own work record grow by 8% per year through delayed retirement credits.
Switch to your own maximized personal benefit at age 70 .

Strategy B: Personal First, Survivor Later

If your survivor benefit (at your FRA) will be higher than your own retirement benefit will ever be, you can:

Claim your own (smaller) retirement benefit at age 62.
Wait until your FRA to switch to the full 100% survivor benefit .
(Note: Survivor benefits do not earn delayed retirement credits past your FRA, so there is no reason to wait until 70 to switch to a survivor benefit) .

The Impact of the Higher Earner's Delay

The decision of the higher-earning spouse to wait until age 70 is essentially a gift to the survivor. If the higher earner claims at 62, they permanently lock in a lower survivor benefit for their spouse .

Table: How Aaron's Claiming Age Affects Elaine's Survivor Benefit

Assumes Aaron's PIA is $2,000 and Elaine lives to 95 .

Aaron's Claiming Age	Aaron's Monthly Check	Elaine's Survivor Check	Lifetime Impact for Elaine
62	$1,400	$1,400	Baseline
67 (FRA)	$2,000	$2,000	+$600/month for life
70	$2,480	$2,480	+$1,080/month for life

In this hypothetical example from Fidelity, if Aaron waits until 70, Elaine’s lifetime benefits could rise by approximately $80,000 compared to him claiming at 62 .

Remarriage and Survivor Benefits

The rules for remarriage are specific and can be a "trap" for the unwary:

Remarry before age 60: You generally lose eligibility for survivor benefits on your deceased spouse's record .
Remarry after age 60: You maintain eligibility for survivor benefits on your deceased spouse's record .

This allows a survivor to choose the highest benefit available from three potential sources: their own work record, their new spouse's spousal benefit, or their deceased spouse's survivor benefit.

The One-Time Death Benefit

In addition to monthly payments, Social Security provides a one-time lump-sum death payment of $255 . This is paid to the surviving spouse if they were living with the deceased, or to a child eligible for benefits . While small, it is intended to help with immediate final expenses and must be applied for within two years of the death .

Step-by-Step: Applying for Survivor Benefits

Report the Death: Usually, the funeral home will do this if you provide them with the deceased's Social Security number .
Check Eligibility: Determine if you meet the age (60+) or caregiving requirements .
Schedule an Appointment: Unlike retirement benefits, you cannot apply for survivor benefits online. You must call 800-772-1213 or visit a local office .
Prepare Documentation: You will need the death certificate, marriage certificate, and proof of age .
Choose Your Sequence: Decide whether to take the survivor benefit now or your own retirement benefit first .