The first step in the Three-Jar System is moving money out of the realm of the invisible and into the physical world. For a young child, a digital bank balance is meaningless, but a clear jar filled with shiny quarters is a powerful motivator. The goal of the setup phase is to create a visual "bank" that the child can interact with daily. This physical interaction is what experts call making saving "visual and very concrete" . When children can see the pile of coins growing, they begin to understand the relationship between time, effort, and accumulation.

Choosing and Labeling Your Containers

To get started, you will need three separate containers. While any jar will work, clear glass or plastic containers are highly recommended because they allow the child to see the progress of their savings at a glance . If the container is opaque, like a traditional ceramic piggy bank, the "out of sight, out of mind" principle may take over, and the child might lose interest in the process.

The Spend Jar: This is for immediate gratification. It covers "wants" like a small treat, a pack of stickers, or a modest toy .
The Save Jar: This is for "future fun." It is earmarked for larger items that require more than one week’s allowance to purchase .
The Give Jar: This is for "helping others." It is used to support a charity, a local cause, or a friend in need .

The "Eye on the Prize" Customization

A highly effective strategy for the "Save" jar is to use visual incentives. If your child is saving for a specific Lego set or a doll, find a picture of that item and tape it directly onto the jar . You can even draw a "goal line" on the side of the jar with a permanent marker. Tell the child, "When the money reaches this line, you will have enough to buy the toy" . This creates a direct, visual link between the act of putting a coin in the jar and the eventual reward.

Establishing the Allocation Ratio

Once the jars are labeled, you must decide how money will be divided. While there is no single "correct" ratio, many parents find success by mirroring adult budgeting principles. For example, you might decide that for every $5 the child receives, $2 goes to Spend, $2 goes to Save, and $1 goes to Give.

Category	Purpose	Adult Equivalent
Spend	Immediate wants and small treats	"Wants" (30% of budget)
Save	Long-term goals and "future fun"	"Savings/Investing" (20% of budget)
Give	Charitable donations and community help	Philanthropy/Tithing

As children get older, you can introduce more complex "bucketing" strategies. For preteens (ages 11-14), you might add a fourth jar for "Short-term Goals" (like a new video game) versus "Long-term Goals" (like a laptop or a car) . This teaches them that not all savings are created equal; some are meant to be spent in a few months, while others are meant to grow for years.

The Role of the "Banker" (Parent)

In the beginning, the parent acts as the "banker," providing the opportunities to earn and ensuring the money is distributed correctly. It is important to use real-life experiences to generate "income" for the jars. This could include:

Simple Chores: Folding laundry, setting the table, or helping with the garden .
Behavioral Rewards: Listening well or completing homework early .
Gift Money: Allocating a portion of birthday or holiday checks into the jars .

The key is repetition and reinforcement. Every time the child receives money, the jars should come out. This consistent routine builds the habit of "paying yourself first" before the temptation to spend the entire amount takes hold . By the time the child is a teenager, this "bucketing" behavior will be second nature, making them much more likely to manage a real bank account with discipline .